In Pakistan, hundreds of women are killed every year after being accused of “dishonoring” their families. DW joined a Pakistani women’s rights campaigner to visit a graveyard in Sindh province where victims are buried.
Fattu Shah is a remote village in the north of Pakistan’s Sindh province. The drive from the nearest city, Ghotki, takes more than an hour. The road narrows as it cuts through cotton fields and winds around clay-brick houses scattered across endless stretches of farmland.
It’s a journey Aisha Dharejo has made countless times. For the past 15 years she has been researching what locals call “the graveyard for dishonored women.”
“Each grave reveals the story of a woman that has been silenced,” Dharejo told DW.
The burial site for victims of “honor” killings has no tombstones and no names. Some graves are marked by broken bricks crushed into the ground, but most have nothing at all — a stark contrast to the adjacent main cemetery.
Dharejo explains that victims of honor killings, both women and men, are not granted dignity even in death. Their bodies are not washed or prepared for burial. There are no rituals, no final rites. The dead are placed hastily into shallow pits, and covered with mud to keep animals away.
Zarqa Shar, a local activist from a nearby village, is one of the few willing to speak publicly. She told DW that the graveyard is more than a century old.
“The district is still heavily influenced by feudal landlords, who control employment, wages and livelihoods,” she told DW.
Shar added that in such a system, local customs often eclipse state law, and questioning entrenched practices like “honor killings” can put residents in danger, ultimately cementing a culture of silence.
Honor killings entrenched in society
The so-called honor killings are premeditated murders carried out by relatives of the victim, with the relatives believing the victim’s behavior has brought shame to the family.
In Pakistan, women and men have been killed for choosing their own spouse, speaking to someone of the opposite gender, marrying outside their caste or religion, or exhibiting behavior generally deemed immoral.
Data from the Human Rights Commission of Pakistan (HRCP) shows that in 2024, at least 405 people were recorded as victims of “honor killings” across Pakistan, with the highest numbers in Sindh and Punjab provinces.
The official numbers have remained consistent year on year, but researchers warn such crimes are often underreported and the real figure is likely to be much higher.
Dharejo said these killings in Pakistan have nothing to do with “tradition,” apart from the fact that they have been going on for a long time. She also said the killings were often more transactional rather than being based on a ostensible sense of morality.
“Women’s bodies become currency in negotiations between families and tribal courts, with killings often masking property disputes or enabling blood money exchanges,” she explains.
Through her organization, “Sindh Suhai Sath,” Dharejo has been documenting these cases and providing financial, legal and emotional support to survivors of “honor-based” and domestic violence.
‘He took away my ability to walk’
One of these women is Sobia Batool Shah, who was 22 years old when six male relatives, including her estranged father, Syed, broke into her home in Naushahro Feroze, a city in Sindh province.
The father accused his daughter of bringing dishonor to the family by asking her husband for a divorce. In an act he called “justifiable,” the men began attacking her. One used an axe to try and sever her legs.
“I will never forget that day. As they were trying to kill me, I screamed that I won’t get a divorce to make them stop,” Shah said. “They made me disabled and that is my greatest pain. They took away my strength to walk.”
Shah told DW she has had four operations so far. Her legs remain in plaster, and she still uses crutches. When she attends court hearings on the second floor, her brother, Shawkat Ali Shah, carries her on his shoulders into the building.
Dharejo’s organization supported Shah in filing three police reports against her father. He now sits in jail facing up to 14 years in prison. But Shah continues to fight for justice against her remaining attackers.
A case like Shah’s can take anywhere from two to five years to reach a verdict. Dharejo says its important to preserve hope, as there are many instances where the law has ruled in favor of women.
‘He was doing all he could to extort me’
At just 12 years old, Haleema Bhutto was married. Shortly after her wedding day, her husband, Shakil Ahmad, began demanding the property she had inherited from her late father.
After multiple refusals, he sent Haleema back to her mother’s home in Ghotki, where she lived for the next eighteen years, caught in a limbo of being married but also abandoned.
Ahmad resurfaced, not to reconcile, but with an accusation that would serve as a death warrant in Ghotki’s feudal society. He claimed she was having an affair with her brother-in-law.
“The allegation was completely false,” Haleema told DW. “He wanted my property again and had found another way to get it. I belonged to a good and financially stable family. He was doing all he could to extort me, even if that meant killing me.”
Haleema said the only way to save her life was to leave Ghotki and travel to Islamabad.
For more than fifteen months, Haleema sat in protest outside the Pakistani capital’s Press Club talking to anyone that would listen. At times, she went on hunger strikes, accusing the government of inaction against the country’s feudal elites.
“I fought publicly so my husband could not kill me,” she said.
Her struggle reached Pakistan’s Supreme Court, where she won a historic decision in 2011.
The court granted her a divorce and restored the property her parents had left her.
“This was not just my fight,” she told DW last month from her home in Ghotki. “It was a fight for every woman who faces a similar situation, that you can have your rights, just don’t give up.”
Source: https://www.dw.com/en/pakistan-inside-a-graveyard-for-victims-of-honor-killings/a-74612608
